Amber Scorah

Born|

Canada

Education| Harvard Divinity School, The City University of New York, CUNY Baccalaureate for Unique and Interdisciplinary Studies[1]
Notable work| Memoir: Leaving the Witness
Movement| whistleblower support, paid parental leave, child care letter grading, ExJW
Spouse| Jonathan Watts
Website| www.amberscorah.com, www.parallelstory.org

Amber Scorah is a Canadian-American writer, speaker, and activist.

## Early life[edit]

Scorah grew up as a third-generation Jehovah's Witness in Vancouver, Canada with her parents and sister. She rarely had contact with non-Jehovah's Witnesses. She forwent a formal education and career, and instead went into the full-time volunteer preaching work immediately after graduating high school. When she was 22 years old she married a Jehovah's Witness elder, then she and her husband moved to China to become missionaries.[2][3]

## Education[edit]

As a young adult, Scorah forwent a formal education after high school (see early life above).[2] In 2010, she enrolled at the City University of New York and attended Hunter College. She took a break in 2015, then resumed her studies in spring 2019. She graduated from the CUNY Baccalaureate for Unique and Interdisciplinary Studies in 2020 with a concentration in English and the Psychology of Religion at Hunter College's program in religion, under the guidance of faculty member Barbara Sproul.[1][4] In Fall of 2020, Scorah was accepted into Harvard Divinity School's Master of Theological Studies program as a Dean's Fellow with a full scholarship.

## ChinesePod and "Dear Amber"[edit]

Scorah is a fluent speaker of Mandarin Chinese and has lived in both Taiwan and China, where she became immersed in Chinese culture.[3] Between the years 2007 and 2009 she hosted a ChinesePod series called "Dear Amber" where she answered listeners' questions about China and discussed unique aspects of Chinese culture and customs which foreigners may not be aware of. ChinesePod describes Scorah as a "pioneer" for developing this new lesson style.[5]

## Child care and parental leave advocacy[edit]

In 2015 Scorah's three-month-old son Karl Towndrow died unexpectedly on his first day of daycare in SoHo, New York. The daycare had been operating without a license and was shut down shortly after the incident. A staff member stated that she had noticed Karl kicking in his crib but she was told by a supervisor to ignore it because that's what babies do. He was found unresponsive with "blue lips" a short time later, and pronounced dead at the hospital.[6][7] Scorah had not felt ready to go back to work and leave him at daycare, which made the incident particularly difficult to cope with. She walked into the daycare and witnessed a staff member administering CPR "incorrectly," despite their earlier assurances that the staff was properly trained to administer CPR. She later found out that he had been put to sleep on his side. Since the official cause of death was "undetermined," she does not know if it could have been prevented; however, she regrets that her son had to die alone without his mother. The incident drove her into activism.>[8]

### Paid parental leave[edit]

Scorah authored a "viral"[9] article for The New York Times' Motherlode blog about the incident from her perspective. In it she explained why she thinks mandatory paid parental leave is necessary. She says, "Parental leave reduces infant death, gives us healthier, more well-adjusted adults and helps women stay in the workforce." First lady Michelle Obama was so moved by her story that she sent a letter of condolence to Scorah. Soon thereafter Barack Obama's senior adviser Valerie Jarrett made a push for legislation mandating paid family leave.[8][10] In February 2016 Scorah attended New York City mayor Bill de Blasio's speech where he discussed his policy mandating 6 weeks' paid parental leave for non-union city employees, and pushed for the policy to be made available throughout the state of New York. Scorah called this policy change a "baby step."[11] In August 2016 Scorah delivered petitions to both the Trump and Clinton presidential campaigns pushing for federally mandated paid leave. Both politicians have spoken favorably of the concept. Donald Trump pitched a plan for how he could institute 6 weeks' paid parental leave. Scorah says this is progress but it's not enough.[8][12] In 2017 CNN correspondent Clare Sebastian named Amber as her "hero" for "...her bravery in turning such a tragic event into public and heartfelt campaign."[13] That same year Brooklyn Magazine named her one of their top "100 Influencers in Brooklyn Culture" for her parental leave advocacy.[14]

## High-control groups[edit]

Scorah began speaking out publicly about her life as a Jehovah's Witness in 2013 in her article Leaving the Witness: A Preacher Finds Freedom To Think In Totalitarian China published by The Believer magazine. In it she speaks about her restrictive childhood and disfellowshipment as a teenager, her life as an illegal missionary in China (see persecution of Jehovah's Witnesses in China), her gradual change of belief, and her eventual apostasy trial and shunning.[3] In 2019 she expounded on this story in her memoir Leaving the Witness.[15]

## Whistleblower Work[edit]

In early 2021, Scorah co-founded Lioness, an organization that helped everyday people and whistleblowers bring forward information to the public.[16] Later, Lioness became a media company in its own right, publishing fact-checked stories in the public interest.[17] In September 2023, Amber expanded her whistleblower support network by launching the collective Parallel Story as a public service to support whistleblowers and publish their stories.

## List of works[edit]

This list is incomplete; you can help by adding missing items. (November 2019)

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### Books[edit]

* Scorah, Amber (2019). Leaving the Witness: Exiting Religion And Finding A Life. Viking Press. ISBN 9780735222540.

### Podcasts[edit]

* Scorah, Amber (2007–2009). Dear Amber (Podcast). ChinesePod.

## References[edit]

1. ^ a b "CUNY EVENTS: BOOK TALK WITH AMBER SCORAH – LEAVING THE WITNESS". The City University of New York.
2. ^ a b Martin, Rachel (2019-06-05). 'Leaving The Witness': The End Of The World As She Knew It, Upon Losing Her Religion. Morning Edition. NPR.
3. ^ a b c Scorah, Amber (2013-02-01). "Leaving the Witness: A PREACHER FINDS FREEDOM TO THINK IN TOTALITARIAN CHINA". The Believer Magazine.
4. ^ "CUNY BA Student Amber Scorah Publishes Memoir". 2019-06-14. Retrieved 2019-11-16.
5. ^ "CHINESEPOD'S FOUNDING STORY". Chinese Pod. 10 October 2019. Retrieved 12 November 2019.
6. ^ Southall, Ashley (2015-07-14). "Infant at Unlicensed Day Care Is Taken to a Hospital and Dies". The New York Times: 17.
7. ^ Yee, Vivian (2015-07-15). "Unlicensed SoHo Day Care Is Shut After Death of Infant Boy". The New York Times: 23.
8. ^ a b c Scorah, Amber (2015-11-15). "A Baby Dies at Day Care, and a Mother Asks Why She Had to Leave Him So Soon". The New York Times. Motherlode. Retrieved 2019-11-13.
9. ^ Morgan, C. E. (1 July 2019), "When Leaving a Religion Is Like Abandoning a Cult", The New York Times, "Many readers know Scorah through her viral article in The New York Times about the death of her son on his first day of day care."
10. ^ Kim, Eun Kyung (2015-11-19). "How Amber Scorah, whose baby died in daycare, is turning heartbreak into a crusade". Today. Retrieved 2019-11-14.
11. ^ DURKIN, ERIN (2016-02-03). "Parents of baby who died in SoHo daycare will attend Mayor de Blasio's speech to support paid parental leave". New York Daily News. Retrieved 2019-11-15.
12. ^ Sebastian, Clare (2017-03-08). "The fight for paid family leave". CNN.
13. ^ "CNN correspondents and anchors reveal their heroes". CNN. 2017-03-31. Retrieved 2019-11-14.
14. ^ Rinn, Natalie (13 March 2017). "Brooklyn 100 Influencer: Amber Scorah, Activist for Paid Parental Leave". Brooklyn Magazine.
15. ^ Scorah, Amber (2019). Leaving the Witness: Exiting A Religion And Finding A Life. Viking. ISBN 9780735222540.
16. ^ Griffith, Erin (5 June 2021). "How the World Learns About Bosses Behaving Badly". The New York Times.
17. ^ "Stories".

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