American Military Partner Association

The American Military Partner AssociationFounded| 2009

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Dissolved| 2019
Location|

* Washington, D.C.

Key people

| Stephen Peters, Founder and President Emeritus

Ashley Broadway, most recent President

Jim Cassidy, Founding Board Member
Website| www.militarypartners.org

Formerly called

| Campaign for Military Partners
Note: This organization later merged into Modern Military Association of America (MMAA) in 2019.

The American Military Partner Association (AMPA) was a non-profit organization for the partners, spouses, and families of America's LGBT service members and veterans.[1]

AMPA traced its roots to the "Campaign for Military Partners," an organization founded by the same-sex partners of service members and sponsored by Servicemembers United (SU).[2] With the close of SU following the repeal of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" (DADT), in 2012, Stephen Peters organized AMPA into an independent non-profit, non-partisan 501(c)(3) organization in Washington, DC. Ashley Broadway, the spouse of an active duty soldier, and Jim Cassidy, the spouse of an active duty sailor, joined Stephen as founding board members.[3]

In May 2019, AMPA merged with OutServe-SLDN to form the Modern Military Association of America — a united voice for the LGBTQ military and veteran community.[4] MMAA carries on the missions of both AMPA and OutServe-SLDN through education, advocacy, and support for LGBTQ service members, veterans, military spouses, family members and allies.[5]

## About

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AMPA was committed to connecting LGBT military families, supporting them through the challenges of military service, honoring them for their commitment to our country, and serving them by advocating on their behalf.[6]

* Connecting:

Through the nation’s largest private online support network for same-sex military partners/spouses designed to create a supportive and educational environment.
Through national and local events around the country designed to build a support network to bring together LGBT military families in a positive environment to foster communication and mutual support.
Through the AMPA New Military Spouse Mentor Program designed to connect new military partners and spouses to more experienced ones who can help guide them on their new journey in serving our nation.

* Supporting:

Through local and national educational events designed to inform and support military families.
Through online virtual support designed to educate on specific needs.
By educating military families on resources available to them.

* Honoring:

By highlighting LGBT military families and the challenges they face in the AMPA Faces of Our Families project.
Through community service projects like AMPA Care Package Drives.
By giving voice to the unique perspective of LGBT military families through the AMPA Military Partners Blog.

* Serving:

By advocating and educating on behalf of LGBT military families in public policy, highlighting their unique needs and challenges.
By encouraging the expansion of resource and support services available to LGBT military families.
By educating the public through stories in national, regional, and local media on the plight of gay military partners/spouses and families.

## Activities

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Since its founding, the organization:

* Highlighted the discrimination LGBT military partners and families face by successfully pitching dozens of stories to national, regional, and local media.[7]
* Created a home on the web for the LGBT military family community that provides a list of available resources, a military partner blog, and a guide to media coverage of issues related to LGBT military families.[8]
* Surveyed the military partner community for the first time about the unique challenges and issues they face and present those results to the Pentagon.
* Facilitated the first meeting between Pentagon officials and the partners of active duty gay and lesbian service members.[9]
* Held the first Military Partners Forum in Washington, D.C.
* Initiated a Military Partner Brunch series in Washington, D.C., and San Diego, California, with plans to expand the series into other cities across the country.
* Created a private social network exclusively for the partners and spouses of LGBT service members.[10]

In December 2012, when the same-sex spouse of a U.S. Army officer was denied membership in the Association of Bragg Officers' Spouses at Fort Bragg, she reported her experience on the AMPA website.[11]

In June 2014, the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) announced that it would only provide benefits to the same-sex spouses of veterans who either (1) married in the state in which they resided or (2) live in a state that recognizes their marriage when they apply for benefits. On August 18, the AMPA filed an appeal in the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Federal Circuit challenging the VA's interpretation of federal law. Their brief cited Windsor and many federal court decisions since Windsor that have held denial of marriage rights to same-sex couples unconstitutional. It said the VA's policy ruling "imports into federal law unconstitutional state definitions of marital status."[12][13]

## Events

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In its effort to connect LGBT military partners and spouses around the country, the American Military Partner Association held local social events to bring military partners face-to-face with others in the same situation for mutual support and encouragement.[14] For LGBT military partners and spouses who were not near major military bases where these events occurred, a private online social network was established to help connect partners/spouses in remote locations to build camaraderie and mutual support.[15]

## References

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1. ^ "About | The American Military Partner Association". Militarypartners.org. 2011-09-20. Retrieved 2014-06-29.
2. ^ "Announcing the Servicemembers United "Campaign For Military Partners"". Daily KOS. December 23, 2009. Retrieved January 22, 2013.
3. ^ "About | The American Military Partner Association". Militarypartners.org. 2011-09-20. Retrieved 2014-06-29.
4. ^ Peters, Stephen. "Our Mission". Modern Military Association of America. Retrieved 2019-08-13.
5. ^ Peters, Stephen. "Modern Military Association of America". Modern Military Association of America. Retrieved 2019-08-13.
6. ^ "About | The American Military Partner Association". Militarypartners.org. 2011-09-20. Retrieved 2014-06-29.
7. ^ "Media". Militarypartners.org. 26 January 2010. Retrieved May 24, 2012.
8. ^ "The American Military Partner Association". Militarypartners.org. Retrieved May 24, 2012.
9. ^ Garcia, Michelle (August 26, 2010). "Military Leaders to Meet with Gay Partners". Advocate.com. Retrieved May 24, 2012.
10. ^ "About". Militarypartners.org. September 20, 2011. Retrieved May 24, 2012.
11. ^ Thompson, Mark (December 17, 2012). "A New Kind of Army Wife". Time. Retrieved January 22, 2013.
12. ^ Denniston, Lye (August 21, 2014). "Test of gap in veterans' benefits for same-sex marriages". SCOTUSblog. Retrieved August 22, 2014.
13. ^ AMPA v. MacDonald, Petition for Review, August 18, 2014, accessed August 22, 2014
14. ^ "Events". Militarypartners.org. 25 February 2012. Retrieved 2012-05-24.
15. ^ "| The American Military Partner Association". Militarypartners.org. 10 February 2012. Retrieved 2014-06-29.

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LGBT military and veteran groups

Ancient|

* Sacred Band of Thebes

Modern|

* American Military Partner Association
* American Veterans for Equal Rights
* Blue Alliance
* Knights Out
* OutServe-SLDN
* Servicemembers United
* The Queer Insurrection and Liberation Army
* USNA Out
* Veterans Benevolent Association
* Transgender American Veterans Association

See also|

* LGBT people and military service

* Category

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LGBT+ people and the United States military

* Bibliography

Overall|

* LGBT veterans healthcare
* Section 8

Sexual orientation|

* Ban on sodomy
* repeal
* Newport sex scandal
* Blue discharge
* Executive Order 10450
* Crittenden Report
* Don't ask, don't tell
* United States v. Marcum (C.A.A.F. 2004)

Transgender|

* Ban on service
* 2017 Memo
* 2018 Memo
* Doe v. Trump
* Stone v. Trump
* Karnoski v. Trump
* Stockman v. Trump

Intersex people|

* Ban on "hermaphroditism"

Organizations|

* Knights Out
* Veterans Benevolent Association
* American Military Partner Association
* Blue Alliance
* Servicemembers United
* USNA Out
* American Veterans for Equal Rights
* Transgender American Veterans Association

Works on subject|

* Conduct Unbecoming: Gays and Lesbians in the U.S. Military
* Unfriendly Fire: How the Gay Ban Undermines the Military and Weakens America
* Coming Out Under Fire
* OutServe Magazine

See also|

* LGBT people and military service

* Category

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