Dani Laidley

Australian rules footballer, born 1967

Australian rules footballer

Dani Laidley

Personal information
Full name|  Danielle May Laidley
Date of birth|  (1967-03-27) 27 March 1967 (age 56)
Original team(s)|  West Perth (WAFL)
Debut|  Round 1, 29 March 1987, West Coast vs. Richmond, at Subiaco Oval
Position(s)|  Half-back
Playing career1
Years|  Club|  Games (Goals)
1987–1992|  West Coast|  52 (11)
1993–1997|  North Melbourne|  99 0(4)
Total|  |  151 (15)
Representative team honours
Years|  Team|  Games (Goals)
1988, 1996|  Western Australia|  2 (0)
Coaching career3
Years|  Club|  Games (W–L–D)
2003–2009|  North Melbourne|  149 (72–75–2)

1 Playing statistics correct to the end of 1997.

2 State and international statistics correct as of 1996.

3 Coaching statistics correct as of 2010.

Career highlights

* North Melbourne premiership player: 1996 AFL Grand Final
* Western Australia state of origin representative 1996, 1998

Sources: AFL Tables, AustralianFootball.com

Danielle May Laidley (born Dean James Laidley; 27 March 1967) is a former Australian rules football coach and player, who played for the West Coast Eagles and North Melbourne in the Australian Football League (AFL) from 1987 to 1997, including in North Melbourne's 1996 premiership team. She was the coach of North Melbourne from 2003 to 2009.

In May 2020, Laidley's gender identity was outed due to a leaked mug shot for drug-related charges.[1][2][3]

## Early life[edit]

Laidley grew up in Balga, Western Australia, a working-class northern suburb of Perth.[4]

Lightly built, Laidley first played senior football at the West Perth Football Club in the West Australian Football League, and was recruited to be part of the West Coast Eagles' inaugural VFL squad in 1987.

## VFL/AFL playing career[edit]

Laidley's playing career in the AFL occurred prior to her gender transition.

### West Coast Eagles (1987–1992)[edit]

Laidley made her VFL debut for the West Coast Eagles in Round 1, 1987, against Richmond at Subiaco Oval. As an aggressive half-back line player and known as "The Junkyard Dog", Laidley was known for her commitment to the contest and to winning the ball. Her career suffered a major setback during the 1990 season when she required a knee reconstruction and found it hard to break back into the team, missing West Coast's 1992 premiership win.[5]

Laidley played a total of 52 games and kicked 11 goals for West Coast Eagles from 1987 until 1992.[5]

### North Melbourne (1993–1997)[edit]

At the end of 1992, Laidley was traded to North Melbourne. A trademark of her play was the execution of the strategy of either kicking out or receiving uncontested a short kick-out to the back pocket, a strategy which was later widely adopted by other clubs.[5] Laidley was also part of the North Melbourne premiership side in 1996.[5]

Laidley played a total of 99 games and kicked 4 goals for North Melbourne from 1993 until 1997.[5]

## Coaching career[edit]

Laidley's coaching in the AFL occurred prior to her gender transition.

### Early career (1998–2002)[edit]

After retiring from the AFL, Laidley took up coaching, beginning with the Weston Creek team in the AFL Canberra competition.

Her first AFL coaching role was with Collingwood as an assistant coach under Mick Malthouse, where she was involved in the club's 2002 AFL Grand Final loss.

### North Melbourne (2003–2009)[edit]

After the resignation of Denis Pagan as senior coach, Laidley was recruited as the senior coach of the Kangaroos for the 2003 season.[6] In her first two years, the team finished 10th. She coached the Kangaroos to the finals for her first time as coach in the 2005 season, but the club was defeated by Port Adelaide in an elimination final. In the 2006 season they regressed and finished 14th. Laidley's ferocity as a player transferred into her coaching style, with her team said to embody the "Shinboner Spirit" of determination and never giving up. She was also seen on occasion to be aggressive towards her playing group.[4]

Laidley took North Melbourne to the finals for the second time in 2007. At the end of 2007, her contract was due for renewal. Despite Melbourne Football Club making advances to secure her as coach,[7] Laidley's contract with North Melbourne was renewed for two years. She took North Melbourne to the finals again in 2008.

After a mid-season review in 2009 and following a string of losses, Laidley resigned as senior coach of North Melbourne on 16 June 2009, one round before what would have been her 150th game as coach. Laidley was replaced by assistant coach Darren Crocker as caretaker senior coach of North Melbourne for the rest of the 2009 season.[8][9]

### Port Adelaide (2010–2011)[edit]

In September 2009, Laidley joined the coaching group at the Port Adelaide Football Club.

After one season as an assistant to Mark Williams and later Matthew Primus, Laidley announced that she would return to Melbourne in 2011 for family reasons, but said she was available to work as an opposition scout and analysis based in Melbourne for Port Adelaide. However, on 27 October 2010, Port Adelaide announced that she would continue on as an assistant coach based four days in Adelaide and three days in Melbourne a week in the 2011 season. She interviewed for the Essendon Football Club senior coach position when it was left vacant by the sacking of Matthew Knights but was unsuccessful.

### St Kilda (2011–2013)[edit]

In early November 2011, Laidley was announced as the new midfield coach of the St Kilda Football Club.[10] Of the move, St Kilda's head of football, Chris Pelchen, said that Laidley "has a wealth of knowledge as a former player and coach in [his] own right. [His] experience will genuinely assist the development of the whole player list at the Saints."[10]

### Carlton (2013–2015)[edit]

Laidley signed with Carlton as midfield assistant coach on 31 October 2013. With the appointment of Brendon Bolton in 2015, Laidley left Carlton.

## Statistics[edit]

### Playing statistics[edit]

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1987 | West Coast | 15 | 10 | 2 | 5 | 119 | 24 | 143 | 37 | 6 | 0.2 | 0.5 | 11.9 | 2.4 | 14.3 | 3.7 | 0.6 | 0
1988 | West Coast | 15 | 11 | 6 | 4 | 139 | 29 | 168 | 44 | 11 | 0.5 | 0.4 | 12.6 | 2.6 | 15.3 | 4.0 | 1.0 | 0
1989 | West Coast | 15 | 10 | 0 | 3 | 116 | 60 | 176 | 40 | 15 | 0.0 | 0.3 | 11.6 | 6.0 | 17.6 | 4.0 | 1.5 | 0
1990 | West Coast | 15 | 7 | 1 | 0 | 93 | 45 | 138 | 23 | 1 | 0.1 | 0.0 | 13.3 | 6.4 | 19.7 | 3.3 | 0.1 | 5
1991 | West Coast | 15 | 0 | — | — | — | — | — | — | — | — | — | — | — | — | — | — | —
1992 | West Coast | 15 | 14 | 2 | 5 | 158 | 90 | 248 | 30 | 13 | 0.1 | 0.4 | 11.3 | 6.4 | 17.7 | 2.1 | 0.9 | 2
1993 | North Melbourne | 7 | 17 | 1 | 2 | 209 | 60 | 269 | 35 | 23 | 0.1 | 0.1 | 12.3 | 3.5 | 15.8 | 2.1 | 1.4 | 6
1994 | North Melbourne | 7 | 24 | 0 | 0 | 302 | 137 | 439 | 77 | 16 | 0.0 | 0.0 | 12.6 | 5.7 | 18.3 | 3.2 | 0.7 | 4
1995 | North Melbourne | 7 | 23 | 0 | 2 | 272 | 131 | 403 | 82 | 24 | 0.0 | 0.1 | 11.8 | 5.7 | 17.5 | 3.6 | 1.0 | 3
1996†  | North Melbourne | 7 | 24 | 2 | 1 | 240 | 130 | 370 | 64 | 29 | 0.1 | 0.0 | 10.0 | 5.4 | 15.4 | 2.7 | 1.2 | 0
1997 | North Melbourne | 7 | 11 | 1 | 0 | 78 | 32 | 110 | 24 | 10 | 0.1 | 0.0 | 7.1 | 2.9 | 10.0 | 2.2 | 0.9 | 0
Career  | 151  | 15  | 22  | 1726  | 738  | 2464  | 456  | 148  | 0.1  | 0.1  | 11.4  | 4.9  | 16.3  | 3.0  | 1.0  | 20

### Coaching statistics[edit]

Legend

W | Wins  |  L | Losses  |  D | Draws  |  W% | Winning percentage  |  LP | Ladder position  |  LT | League teams

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Season  | Team  | Games  | W  | L  | D  | W %  | LP  | LT

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2003 | Kangaroos | 22 | 11 | 10 | 1 | 52.3% | 10 | 16
2004 | Kangaroos | 22 | 10 | 12 | 0 | 45.5% | 10 | 16
2005 | Kangaroos | 23 | 13 | 10 | 0 | 56.5% | 5 | 16
2006 | Kangaroos | 22 | 7 | 15 | 0 | 31.8% | 14 | 16
2007 | Kangaroos | 25 | 15 | 10 | 0 | 60.0% | 4 | 16
2008 | North Melbourne | 23 | 12 | 10 | 1 | 54.3% | 7 | 16
2009*  | North Melbourne | 12 | 4 | 8 | 0 | 33.3% | 13 | 16
Career totals  | 149  | 72  | 75  | 2  | 49.0%  |

*Laidley resigned as coach in 2009. Darren Crocker coached the club for the remainder of the season.

## Personal life[edit]

Laidley was previously married to Joanna, with whom she has three children. She has since reconciled with Donna Leckie, who she had dated on-and-off prior to her marriage.[13]

Laidley commenced a gender transition in December 2019.[14] In May 2020, Laidley's gender identity was outed due to a leaked mug shot for drug-related charges.[1][2][3] In November 2020, her lawyer announced that she had transitioned to female and wished to be referred to as Dani (or Dan).[15] While Laidley's ex-wife and mother to her children had known about her secret, her son and the public at large did not. Laidley's son, Kane, first knew about her gender dysphoria upon seeing the aforementioned mug shot in a newspaper article. However, her two daughters knew before then, after Laidley had accidentally posted photos of herself en femme on Snapchat.[16] She is not on speaking terms with her daughters,[17] but her son has rallied to her defence.[18][13]

Since 2021, Laidley has become involved with the North Melbourne Football Club again, tossing the coin at the 2022 Pride Round game against the GWS Giants,[19] and attending other club events with North Melbourne players and management.[20] Her memoir, Don't Look Away, co-written with Konrad Marshall, was released in August 2022.[21] Danielle Laidley: Two Tribes, a documentary about her life, premiered on Stan in September 2023.[22]

## Controversies[edit]

During a 2006 match against St Kilda, a Kangaroos supporter had a confrontation with Laidley during a period of consistently poor performances. The supporter twice made remarks to which Laidley responded with an honest summation "we are all hurting", later inviting the supporter to the club rooms to see how badly the players were feeling due to their onfield performance. The footage was captured on television and broadcast nationally. The supporter died by suicide later that night, unrelated to the incident with Laidley.[23]

In 2007, former Kangaroos' star Wayne Carey criticised Laidley and argued that another former teammate, John Longmire, should replace her as Laidley's contract was due for renewal at the end of 2007.[24] After a forthright response by Laidley that referenced Carey's personal scandals,[25] Carey responded by describing her as arrogant and also called her aloof, saying she generally did not acknowledge her old teammates.[26]

In May 2020, Laidley was arrested and charged with one count of stalking. She did not apply for bail.[27] Laidley was allegedly found with 0.43 grams of methamphetamine in her bra at the time of her arrest.[28] In November, she was placed into a diversion program and given an "adjourned undertaking with no conviction recorded" on the stalking charge. A Victoria Police officer allegedly distributed photos of Laidley in women's clothing, taken while she was in custody. In December, the officer was charged with unauthorised access and disclosure of police information as well as misconduct in public office. Three other officers have been accused of the same breach but will face disciplinary action at a later date.[29][30]

## References[edit]

1. ^ a b McGowan, Michael (4 May 2020). "Dean Laidley: Victoria police officer stood down over leaked photos of ex-North Melbourne AFL coach". The Guardian. ISSN 0261-3077. Retrieved 19 September 2023.
2. ^ a b "Second Victoria Police officer suspended over leak of Dean Laidley photos". ABC News. 5 May 2020. Retrieved 19 September 2023.
3. ^ a b "Senior cop stood down over 'appalling' photo leak as troubled ex-AFL coach faces seven charges". Fox Sports. 4 May 2020. Retrieved 19 September 2023.
4. ^ a b Harms, John (2 August 2003). "The Laidley Spirit". The Age. Melbourne.
5. ^ a b c d e "DANI LAIDLEY". Retrieved 30 September 2022.
6. ^ "Laidley confirmed as Roos new coach". 2 October 2002. Retrieved 30 September 2022.
7. ^ Denham, Greg (9 August 2007). "Laidley rejects Demons' advances". The Australian.
8. ^ Paine, Chris (16 June 2009). "Laidley ends 'great journey' at North".
9. ^ "Dean Laidley resigns as coach of North Melbourne". 16 June 2009. Retrieved 30 September 2022.
10. ^ a b Brodie, Will (2 November 2011). "Saints nab Laidley". The Age. Melbourne.
11. ^ "AFL Tables - Dani Laidley - Stats - Statistics". afltables.com.
12. ^ "AFL Tables - Dani Laidley - Coaching Record". afltables.com.
13. ^ a b Millar, Lisa (17 September 2023). "AFL star, coach and transgender role model — Danielle Laidley lays bare her story, in her own words". ABC News. Retrieved 12 October 2023.
14. ^ Moore, Georgie. "Former North coach Dani Laidley avoids conviction for stalking". afl.com.au. Retrieved 4 January 2021.
15. ^ Sweeney, Karen (11 November 2020). "Former North Melbourne coach's charge to be dropped with letter of thanks to police". 7NEWS.com.au. Retrieved 7 May 2021.
16. ^ "Dani Laidley's children found out about gender identity via Snapchat accident". news.com.au. 13 September 2023. Retrieved 12 October 2023.
17. ^ Anabel, Anita (19 September 2023). ""You better come and get me": Danielle Laidley admits to dobbing herself in before 2020 arrest". Mediaweek. Retrieved 12 October 2023.
18. ^ AFL Legend Danielle Laidley's Life Story Told In Her Own Words, retrieved 19 September 2023
19. ^ "Laidley tosses coin for Pride match as Roos triumph in the heat, Harris stars for Dees". 22 January 2022.
20. ^ "Dani Laidley's return to North Melbourne praised by transgender community - ABC News".
21. ^ Horn, Jonathan (29 August 2022). "Reframing courage: Danielle Laidley tells of overcoming fear, shame and alpha male world of the AFL". The Guardian. Retrieved 12 October 2023.
22. ^ "Former coach Danielle Laidley praises AFL for support during difficult time". The Guardian. 19 September 2023. Retrieved 12 October 2023 - via Australian Associated Press.
23. ^ Holroyd, Jane (30 May 2006). "Fan's death 'devastating': Laidley". The Age. Melbourne.
24. ^ Timms, Daryl (16 March 2007). "Dump Laidley: Carey". The Advertiser.
25. ^ "Laidley hits back at Carey comments". The Sydney Morning Herald. Retrieved 24 May 2023.
26. ^ "Carey and Laidley agree to disagree". The Sydney Morning Herald. Retrieved 24 May 2023.
27. ^ "AFL 2020: Dean Laidley,arrested, in police custody, charges, stalking, in court May 11, did not apply for bail". Fox Sports. 3 May 2020. Retrieved 3 May 2020.
28. ^ "Dean Laidley allegedly found with meth during arrest". ESPN. 11 May 2020. Retrieved 2 December 2020.
29. ^ "Victorian police officer charged with distributing photos of former AFL coach Dani Laidley, taken while in custody". ABC News. 2 December 2020. Retrieved 2 December 2020.
30. ^ Ore, Adeshola (25 July 2023). "Victorian police officer who shared images of Dani Laidley sacked over photos of dead bodies". The Guardian. Retrieved 12 October 2023.

## External links[edit]

* Dani Laidley's playing statistics from AFL Tables
* Dani Laidley at AustralianFootball.com
* Dani Laidley's WAFL playing statistics

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Inaugural West Coast Eagles VFL team

Full-back|

* Dwayne Lamb
* Michael Brennan
* Paul Peos

Half-back|

* Geoff Miles
* Ross Glendinning (c)
* Mark Zanotti

Centre|

* Phil Narkle
* Murray Wrensted
* Peter Davidson

Half-forward|

* Dani Laidley
* Laurie Keene
* Don Holmes

Full-forward|

* Steve Malaxos
* Darren Bennett
* Andrew Macnish

Ruck|

* Alex Ishchenko
* John Annear
* Wally Matera

Interchange|

* Chris Lewis
* Adrian Barich

Coach|

* Ron Alexander

West Coast defeated Richmond 20.13 (133) to 16.23 (119), Round 1, 1987, at Subiaco Oval

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North Melbourne Football Club 1996 AFL premiers

North Melbourne 19.17 (131) defeated Sydney Swans 13.10 (88), at the Melbourne Cricket Ground

* 2\. Schwass
* 3\. Rock
* 4\. Martyn
* 5\. Anderson
* 6\. Fairley
* 7\. Laidley
* 8\. Scott
* 10\. Stevens
* 11\. Archer
* 12\. Blakey
* 16\. Capuano
* 17\. Freeborn
* 18\. Carey (c)
* 22\. Roberts
* 24\. Sholl
* 26\. Bell
* 27\. Crocker
* 31\. McKernan
* 33\. Allison
* 34\. King
* 37\. Simpson

Coach: Pagan

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Coaches of the North Melbourne Football Club

VFL/AFL|

* 1925–1926: Eicke
* 1926: S. Thomas
* 1926: Donnelly
* 1927: Barker
* 1928–1929: Tyson
* 1929: Noonan
* 1930: Lewis
* 1931: Clark
* 1931: Pemberton
* 1932: Cameron
* 1932–1934: Taylor
* 1934-1935: Fitzmaurice
* 1935–1937: Scanlan
* 1938–1939: Forbes
* 1939: Cusack
* 1940: L. Thomas
* 1940: Adamson
* 1941–1942: McCaskill
* 1942–1943: Findlay
* 1944–1947: McCaskill
* 1948–1953: Carter
* 1954–1955: McCorkell
* 1956–1957: Gaudion
* 1958–1962: Carter
* 1963–1966: Killigrew
* 1966–1970: McKenzie
* 1971–1972: Dixon
* 1973–1980: Barassi
* 1981: Blight
* 1981–1984: Cable
* 1985–1989: Kennedy
* 1990–1992: Schimmelbusch
* 1993–2002: Pagan
* 2003–2009: Laidley
* 2009, 2015, 2016: Crocker
* 2010–2019: Scott
* 2019–2020: Shaw
* 2021–2022: Noble
* 2022: Adams
* 2023–: Clarkson
* 2023: Ratten

AFL Women's|

* 2019–2020: Gowans
* 2021–: Crocker

Italics denote caretaker coach

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Western Australian team – 1986 Interstate Championships

Western Australia 18.19 (127) defeated South Australia 12.16 (88), at Football Park, 27 May 1986
Western Australia 21.11 (137) defeated Victoria 20.14 (134), at Subiaco Oval, 8 July 1986

Both games|

* Bairstow
* Ellis
* Harding
* Keene
* Laidley
* Lamb
* Macnish
* Miles
* Mitchell
* Peake
* Sartori
* Waterson
* Wilson

State game vs. South Australia|

* Bewick
* Christie
* Dean
* Malaxos
* Panizza
* Taylor
* Wiley
* Wilkinson
* Wrensted

State of Origin vs. Victoria|

* Baker
* Blackwell
* Buckenara
* Davidson
* Glendinning
* Hardie
* Lester-Smith
* Narkle
* Rioli

Coach: Alexander

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Western Australian team  – 1993 State of Origin

South Australia 19.13 (127) defeated Western Australia 14.17 (91), at Football Park, 2 June 1993, crowd: 21,487

Semi-Final vs. South Australia|

* Allan
* Bairstow
* Bewick
* Christian
* Gastev
* Heady
* Ishchenko
* A. Jakovich
* G. Jakovich
* Kickett
* Laidley
* Lewis
* Matera
* Rowe
* Seecamp
* Starcevich
* Sumich
* Watters
* Wilson
* Winmar
* Worsfold (c)
* Zanotti

Coach: Malthouse

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Western Australian team  – 1995 State of Origin

* Allan (c)
* Banfield
* Burrows
* Connell
* Delaney
* Evans
* Hart
* Jakovich
* Dale Kickett
* Derek Kickett
* Langdon
* Laidley
* Lewis
* Mann
* McManus
* O'Reilly
* Seecamp
* Symmons
* Turnbull
* Waterman
* Winmar
* Zanotti

Coach: Buckenara

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Western Australian team  – 1996 State of Origin

* Ball
* Bandy
* Banfield
* Clape
* Connell
* Cummings
* Donnelly
* Hall
* Hart
* Jakovich
* Jones
* Dale Kickett
* Derek Kickett
* Laidley
* McIntosh
* McKenna (c)
* Merenda
* Mitchell
* O'Reilly
* Prior
* Schofield
* White

Coach: Glendinning
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