Disappearance of Patrick McDermott

American cameraman (born 1956)

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Patrick McDermott

Born|

Kim Chong-nam

(1956-09-18)September 18, 1956

Seoul, South Korea

Disappeared| 30 June 2005 (aged 48)
Off the coast of Los Angeles, California
Occupation| Cameraman
Known for| Relationship with Olivia Newton-John, mysterious disappearance
Spouse|

Yvette Nipar

(m. 1992; div. 1994)​

Partner| Olivia Newton-John c. 1996–2005
Children| 1

Patrick Kim McDermott (born September 18, 1956 – disappeared June 30, 2005) was a Korean-American cameraman who disappeared on June 30, 2005, while on an overnight fishing trip off the coast of Los Angeles, California. He was the on-and-off boyfriend of Olivia Newton-John.[1] The United States Coast Guard concluded that he was likely lost at sea. Since his disappearance, unsubstantiated claims have been made, particularly in the Australian media, that McDermott faked his own death and is still alive in Mexico.[2]

## Personal life[edit]

McDermott was born in Seoul, South Korea, on September 18, 1956. According to McDermott, he believed he was born to a Korean mother and an American father. He was placed for adoption by his mother and subsequently adopted by an American family when he was two years old. According to his adoption card, his birth name was Kim Chong-nam.[3] McDermott married the actress Yvette Nipar in 1992 and divorced around 1994.[4][5] They have a son, Chance McDermott.[6] McDermott had filed for bankruptcy in 2000 and had received a court order to pay overdue child support to his former wife.[5] He had been in an on–off relationship with Olivia Newton-John for around 9 years prior to his disappearance.[7] At the time that Olivia met him, McDermott was working as a lighting designer.[3]

## Disappearance[edit]

McDermott disappeared from a fishing charter boat off San Pedro, Los Angeles, on June 30, 2005. He was a passenger on the fishing boat Freedom which had left from the San Pedro marina for a 22-hour overnight fishing trip. McDermott was a frequent client of overnight fishing trips. He booked the trip solo, and he did not know any of the other 22 passengers or crew.[8] There was no headcount on the boat when the passengers disembarked. Some of his personal belongings, including his car keys, passport, and wallet, were found on the boat, and his car was found parked near the marina where he had left it.[8] His absence was apparently unnoticed until July 6, 2005, when he failed to attend a family event.[9] He was reported missing on July 11, but the story did not gain widespread press coverage until a month later.[8] A Coast Guard Investigative Service case was closed on September 15, 2006, and "did not find any evidence of criminal action, suicide, accident or hoax in the disappearance of McDermott."[10] A separate United States Coast Guard marine safety investigation, looking into the conduct of the fishing vessel, closed on October 30, 2008. Both investigations concluded that McDermott was likely lost at sea.[10]

## Speculative whereabouts[edit]

Since McDermott's disappearance, there has been unsubstantiated speculation that he faked his own death. The case was featured on America's Most Wanted.[11] In a 2009 feature on Dateline NBC, investigators went undercover to look for him in Mexico, where they believed he might be hiding. The investigators claimed McDermott disappeared to avoid debts, including US$8,000 owed to his ex-wife for child support. Those same investigators created the website FindPatrickMcDermott.com for the sole purpose of trapping McDermott.[12] As the Dateline special showed, all visitors' web addresses were logged and mapped. The Dateline investigators believed in 2009 that McDermott was living in a boat off the west coast of Mexico. They continued to track hits to their website. The Dateline investigators said there were over 20 sightings of McDermott in Mexico and Central America.[13]

In January 2009, investigators alleged he is alive and well in Mexico, and asking to be left alone.[14]

In April 2009, a man Dateline hired to find McDermott, Philip Klein, released the following statement:[15]

> Since the airing of the Dateline NBC story and the media coverage of this story from around the world—we the investigators in the case would like to say "thank you" to all of you from around the world that have helped us track Mr. McDermott down. Our team cannot ever say enough thanks to the people and governments of the United States, Mexico, Brazil and Panama. As well, INTERPOL and other federal agencies that has communicated and assisted us in this case.

> On February 10, 2009, our firm received a fax from a small city in Mexico near Acapulco in the State of Guerrero of the Pacific coast.

> After investigating the letter sent to us by fax—we began to investigate its origin. Since that time we have been in phone contact with a 'representative' of McDermott. We find this 'representative' credible.

> We are currently in negotiations with this 'representative' and will make an announcement when necessary. Please understand that we are using all caution due to the current issues Mexico is facing and the safety of our staff. As well, we ask all of you, including the media to remember there is a young man out there that would like firm and clear answers to why his father went missing. Please keep him in your thoughts.

> We will make a formal statement and announcement through our friends at NBC Dateline at the proper time.

After years of searching for the missing man, a group of private investigators hired by Dateline NBC were alleged to have located McDermott alive and living in Mexico in April 2010.[16] The private investigators, led by Texas-based Philip Klein, claimed to have tracked McDermott down after noticing that a collection of centralized IP addresses were logging onto the website that followed his presumed whereabouts.

The addresses led the investigators to the Mexican-Pacific coast near Puerto Vallarta, where they claimed McDermott had been living under his birth name, Pat Kim.[6][16]

However, McDermott's ex-wife, Yvette Nipar, disputes Klein's claim that McDermott is alive. In March 2012, she wrote to Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos, and asked him to stop promoting Klein's book, Lost At Sea. Nipar said Klein is a "well-known serial liar (who) is simply looking to be famous at the expense of an unfortunate tragedy in our lives." Nipar said although Klein repeatedly promised he would prove McDermott was alive, he "never provided anything whatsoever" as proof of life. "My son has been through enough emotional torment over this," Nipar wrote. "He has yet to be able to move on due to Mr. Klein's continual effort to keep him in the public eye."[4]

In 2016, more than a decade after his mysterious disappearance, the Australian weekly magazine Woman's Day claimed investigators found McDermott healthy and alive in the town of Sayulita, Mexico—where they purported that he lived with his new girlfriend.[17] None of the claims were ever substantiated.[2]

On November 7, 2017, The Independent reported[18] that New Idea, a long-running Australian weekly magazine, claimed it had evidence McDermott is alive after receiving photos by US media agency Coleman-Rayner which show a man who matched his description alongside a woman. On January 2, 2018, the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation published a story of a man from Manitoba, Canada, who identified himself and his wife as the subject of the photo from the 2017 Australian tabloid, as a case of mistaken identity.[19]

## See also[edit]

* List of people who disappeared mysteriously at sea

## References[edit]

1. ^ Leonard, Tom (April 1, 2010). "Olivia Newton-John's former boyfriend 'found'". The Daily Telegraph. London.
2. ^ a b Kennedy, Dana (November 26, 2017). "Why Olivia Newton-John's 'Missing' Ex—and the Stories About Him—Just Won't Die". The Daily Beast. Retrieved July 10, 2021.
3. ^ a b "Newton-John visits lover's hometown". The Dong-a Ilbo. August 22, 2000. Archived from the original on July 10, 2021. Retrieved July 10, 2021.
4. ^ a b "Olivia Newton-John's lover Patrick McDermott is dead, says former wife Yvette Nipar". The Daily Telegraph. May 11, 2012.
5. ^ a b "Missing Man Has Money Problems". www.cbsnews.com. August 25, 2005. Archived from the original on March 31, 2016. Retrieved July 10, 2021.
6. ^ a b "Olivia Newton-John's ex-boyfriend Patrick McDermott offers DNA sample to prove he's alive". Daily News. New York.
7. ^ Hellard, Peta (January 28, 2009). "Patrick McDermott is Alive and on the Run". News.com.au. Archived from the original on April 8, 2009.
8. ^ a b c "Xanadu Lost". NBC News. August 25, 2005.
9. ^ Morrison, Keith (November 2, 2006). "Is Olivia Newton-John's boyfriend alive?". NBC News. Archived from the original on April 13, 2021. Retrieved July 10, 2021.
10. ^ a b "Coast Guard statement on Patrick McDermott case" (Press release). United States Coast Guard. August 10, 2009. Archived from the original on July 17, 2011. Retrieved February 1, 2011.`{{cite press release}}`: CS1 maint: bot: original URL status unknown (link)
11. ^ "Patrick Kim McDermott". America's Most Wanted. Archived from the original on January 31, 2009.
12. ^ FindPatrickMcDermott.com Archived February 5, 2009, at the Wayback Machine
13. ^ "PI Tracking Down Olivia Newton-John's Missing Boyfriend". People. January 27, 2009.
14. ^ "Olivia Newton John's missing ex-boyfriend Patrick McDermott 'found' via internet". The Daily Telegraph. London. January 2009. Archived from the original on January 30, 2009.
15. ^ "Entertainment News & latest headlines from AOL". AOL.com.
16. ^ a b "Found! Olivia Newton-John's Missing Beau Really Did Fake Death". E! Online. April 5, 2010.
17. ^ "Olivia Newton John's missing lover found". Women's Day (Australia). Now To Love. March 22, 2016. Retrieved July 9, 2021.
18. ^ "Olivia Newton-John's ex 'found in Mexico after faking his own death 12 years ago'". The Independent. November 7, 2017. Retrieved August 8, 2019.
19. ^ Manitoba man says tabloids falsely ID'd him as Olivia Newton-John's missing ex-boyfriend

## External links[edit]

* Yvette Nipar fansite with news relating to the disappearance
* MSNBC report
* ABC (Australia) news report of possible sighting in Mexico
* North American Missing Persons Network
* Tabloid Baby's singular coverage of McDermott case

*[m.]: married
*[div.]: divorced