National Parents Organization

U.S. non-profit organization

National Parents OrganizationAbbreviation| NPO

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Formation| 1998
Founders| Ned Holstein, John Cristofano, Phil Clendenning, John Maguire
Type| 501(c)(3) not-for-profit charitable organization
Purpose| To make shared parenting the norm by reforming family courts and laws
Headquarters| Newton, Massachusetts, United States

Key people

| Ned Holstein, Founder and Chair
Donald Hubin, Chair, Board of Directors
Matt Hale, Vice-Chair
Linda Reutzel, Treasurer
Cam Huffman, Board Member
George Piskor, Board Member
Affiliations| State affiliates
Website| www.sharedparenting.org

Formerly called

| Fathers and Families
National Parents Organization's Kentucky Chapter following passage of the first in the nation shared parenting law.

The National Parents Organization (NPO) is a 501(c)(3) non-profit charitable and educational organization in the United States that promotes shared parenting. The organization focuses on family court reform, research, and public education with the goal to make shared parenting the general norm for separated parenting.

## History

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The organization was founded in Massachusetts in 1998 with the name Foundation for Fathers and Families. The founders were Ned Holstein, John Cristofano, Phil Clendenning and John Maguire. The name was later shortened to Fathers and Families. In 2013, the name was changed to the National Parents Organization in order to reflect the organization's belief in gender-neutral shared parenting and parental equality, as opposed to seeking any special rights for fathers.[1][2][3] The stated mission of the organization is "to improve the lives of children and strengthen society by protecting every child's right to the love and care of both parents after separation or divorce."[4]

## Family court reform

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The National Parents Organization seeks to reform laws both at the state and the national level to encourage shared parenting. Most of the family court reform work is done by local affiliates on a state-by-state basis.[5][6]

In Kentucky, the National Parents Organization, led by Matt Hale, was involved in the 2018 passage of HB528, the nation's first presumption that shared parenting is in the best interest of the child.[7][8] In Virginia, the local affiliate led the campaign for House Bill 1351, requiring courts to consider shared custody arrangements.[9]

In 2016, the NPO affiliate in Missouri helped pass a law stating that judges may not give custody preference to a parent because of gender, age, or financial status.[10][11]

In Utah, the National Parents Organization was a catalyst for House Bill 35, which encourages family courts to more equally award physical custody after a divorce or separation. The bill passed in 2015.[12]

The organization has helped pass military parent-child custody legislation in several states and has introduced legislation protecting men and children against paternity fraud. Members have served on state child support guideline revision committees.[5][13][14]

## Research

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The organization promotes and disseminates scientific research on how children are affected by shared parenting versus other custody arrangements.

In collaboration with the International Council on Shared Parenting, NPO organized and sponsored a conference on shared parenting that included leading researchers from around the world.[15] Conclusions of this conference were summarized in "Shared Parenting After Parental Separation: The Views of 12 Experts,"[16] with this statement: "these 12 experts largely agreed that SP should now be a legal presumption, that a minimum of 35% of the child’s time should be allocated to each parent for the child to reap the benefits of SP, and that the existence of interparental conflict or opposition to SP by one parent should no longer be grounds to preclude or rebut SP" (p. 383).

In 2014, NPO published the 2014 NPO Shared Parenting Report Card,"[17] which graded each state on the degree to which the state's statutes promote or inhibit shared parenting after divorce or separation. The highest grade, which was just a B, was received by Alaska, Arizona, and Minnesota. The lowest grade of an F was received by New York and Rhode Island.[18]

In 2019, NPO published another Shared Parenting Report Card.[18] This report showed progress in enacting legislation to promote shared parenting. Two states, Arizona and Kentucky, received grades in the A range, and every legislative initiative between 2014 and 2019 was favorable to shared parenting.

In 2018 the Ohio NPO chapter evaluated and compared the court guidelines that each county uses to determine parenting time when parents cannot agree. Each county received a grade of A to F, with A given to guidelines with the most equal time. Most counties received a D, but two counties, Ashtabula and Tuscarawas, received an A, while one county, Van Wert, received an F.[19] The media attention generated interest and discussions among judges and court officials, with some counties revising their guidelines.[20][21]

The Ohio NPO chapter repeated the Ohio Parenting Time Report in the fall of 2020. It showed significant improvement in the local parenting time rules of a handful of counties. Six counties received grades in the A range and no counties received a grade of F.[22]

## Public education

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Through conferences and media, the National Parents Organization does public education promoting shared parenting, based on scientific research. Members also work to raise awareness of parental alienation.[23]

Together with the International Council on Shared Parenting, the National Parents Organization sponsored the Third International Conference on Shared Parenting, held in Boston in May 2017. The theme of the conference was Shared Parenting Research: A Watershed in Understanding Children’s Best Interest? The conference had presentations by scientists in the field of optimal post-divorce parenting arrangements.[24][25]

The organization engages social, local, and national media to raise awareness about the family court system, shared parenting, and parental alienation, with coverage by many both minor and major media outlets.[26][27] For example, in 2018 the co-chair of the Virginia chapter wrote an Op-Ed on comparing the growing uproar to children being separated from their parents at the border with the forced child-parent separations imposed by our family courts.[28]

## Organizational structure

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The organization is headquartered in Newton, Massachusetts; Ned Holstein is the founder and chairman of the board emeritus. Donald Hubin, Ph.D. is the chairman of the board. Other National Parents Organization board members include Matt Hale, Cam Huffman, George Piskor, and Linda Reutzel.[29]

There are 26 state affiliates in Alabama, Arizona, California, Colorado, Florida, Georgia, Hawaii, Idaho, Illinois, Kansas, Kentucky, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Missouri, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New York, Ohio, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Texas, Utah, Virginia, Washington, West Virginia, and Wisconsin.[30]

## References

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1. ^ "Nonprofit Report for National Parents Organization Inc".
2. ^ "By: Ned Holstein, MD, MS, Founder and Chair of the Board". Archived from the original on 2018-11-29. Retrieved 2018-11-29.
3. ^ "Fathers & Families". Fairness.com. Archived from the original on 2018-11-29. Retrieved 2018-11-29.
4. ^ "Mission + Achievements — National Parents Organization". Sharedparenting.org. Retrieved 2022-06-09.
5. ^ a b "NPO Achievements – Outlining National Parent Organization's History of Advocacy". National Parent Organization.
6. ^ Jennifer Ludden (February 26, 2014). "Push To Change Custody Laws: What's Best For Kids?". National Public Radio.
7. ^ Ryland Barton (April 29, 2018). "Joint Custody Will Be The Default Under New Kentucky Law". WFPL National Public Radio.
8. ^ Matt Hale (November 29, 2018). "Opinion: Shared parenting law has fantastic election day". The Daily Independent.
9. ^ Saleen Martin (May 29, 2018). "When parents split, new Virginia law will make it easier to get joint custody". The Virginian-Pilot.
10. ^ Linda Reutzel (May 9, 2018). "On Mother's Day, let's celebrate shared parenting". The St. Louis Post – Dispatch.
11. ^ Mark Bliss (October 12, 2017). "Child-custody advocate: State law needs fix to provide parents with more equal custody". Southeast Missourian.
12. ^ Danielle Downs (May 19, 2015). "Utah's new shared parenting law in effect". Daily Herald. Archived from the original on September 8, 2015. Retrieved January 22, 2019.
13. ^ "NPO's Deuel appointed to serve 4-year term on Utah Child Support Guidelines Advisory Committee". National Parents Organization. November 7, 2018. Archived from the original on 2019-01-24. Retrieved 2019-01-23.
14. ^ "Report of the Child Support Guidelines Task Force" (PDF). Mass.gov. October 2008.
15. ^ "Home". sharedparenting.net.
16. ^ Braver, Sanford L.; Lamb, Michael E. (2018). "Shared Parenting After Parental Separation: The Views of 12 Experts". Journal of Divorce & Remarriage. 59 (5): 372–387\. doi:10.1080/10502556.2018.1454195. S2CID 149843380 – via ResearchGate.
17. ^ "2014 Shared Parenting Report".
18. ^ a b "2019 Shared Parenting Report Card, A New Look At Child Welfare, A State-by-State Ranking". National Parents Organization. 2019.
19. ^ Donald C. Hubin, Frank Glandorf, Julia W. Carpenter-Hubin (August 29, 2018). "NPO Ohio Parenting Time Report". National Parents Organization.`{{cite web}}`: CS1 maint: multiple names: authors list (link)
20. ^ Rita Price (December 9, 2018). "Should Ohio divorce courts follow same standard in setting shared parenting?". The Columbus Dispatch. Archived from the original on January 11, 2019. Retrieved January 9, 2019.
21. ^ Paige Pfleger (September 17, 2018). "Report Reveals Antiquated Court Custody Guidelines Across Ohio". Cincinnati Public Radio News, WVXU.
22. ^ "Ohio Parenting Time Report".
23. ^ "Disposable Dad". Salt Lake City Weekly.
24. ^ Edward Kruk (26 June 2017). "Understanding Children's Best Interests in Divorce: Conclusions of the Third International Conference on Shared Parenting". Psychology Today.
25. ^ Traci L. Slatton (30 May 2017). "International Conference in Shared Parenting 2017: Watershed Moment". Huffington Post.
26. ^ "RECENT ACHIEVEMENTS". National Parents Organization.
27. ^ Jonathan Ellis, USA TODAY (27 January 2014). "Shared parenting could be new divorce outcome". usatoday.com.
28. ^ Christian Paasch (August 9, 2018). "Child separation issues go well beyond the border". St. Louis Post-Dispatch.
29. ^ "Officers + Board".
30. ^ "NPO State Affiliates". NPO.

## External links

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* The National Parents Organization homepage

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Parenting

Kinship terminology|

* Parent
* Mother
* Father
* Adoptive
* Alloparenting
* Coparenting
* Extended family
* Foster care
* Noncustodial
* Nuclear family
* Orphaned
* Same-sex
* Shared parenting
* Single parent
* Blended family
* Surrogacy
* In loco parentis

Theories · Areas|

* Attachment theory
* Applied behavior analysis
* Behaviorism
* Child development
* Cognitive development
* Developmental psychology
* Human development
* Identity formation
* Introjection
* Love
* Maternal bond
* Nature versus nurture
* Parental investment
* Care work
* Cost of raising a child
* Paternal care
* Unpaid work
* Paternal bond
* Pediatrics
* Social emotional development
* Socialization
* Social psychology

Styles|

* Achievement ideology
* Atlas personality
* Attachment parenting
* Baby talk
* Buddha-like parenting
* Concerted cultivation
* Enmeshment
* Free-range parenting
* Gatekeeper parent
* Helicopter parent
* Nurturant parenting
* Reflective parenting
* Slow parenting
* Soccer mom
* Strict father model
* Taking Children Seriously
* Theybie
* Tiger parenting
* Work at home parent

Techniques|

* After-school activity
* Allowance
* Bedtime
* Child care
* Co-sleeping
* Dishabituation
* Education
* Habituation
* Homeschooling
* Identification (psychology)
* Introjection
* Kommune 1
* Latchkey kid
* Moral development
* Normative social influence
* Parent management training
* Play (date)
* Role model
* Social integration
* Television
* The talk (race)
* The talk (sex education)
* Toy (educational)
* Positive Parenting Program

Child discipline|

* Blanket training
* Corporal punishment in the home
* Curfew
* Grounding
* Positive discipline
* Tactical ignoring
* Time-out

Abuse|

* Adverse childhood experiences
* Child abandonment
* Child abuse
* Child labour
* Child neglect
* Cinderella effect
* Codependency
* Deadbeat parent
* Dysfunctional family
* Effects of domestic violence
* Incest
* Management of domestic violence
* Narcissistic parent
* Parental abuse by children
* Parental alienation
* Stress in early childhood

Legal|

* Child custody
* Child support
* Disownment
* Family disruption
* Right to family life
* Marriage
* Parental leave
* Parental responsibility
* Parents' rights
* Paternity
* Shared parenting

Experts|

* Mary Ainsworth
* Diana Baumrind
* John Bowlby
* T. Berry Brazelton
* Rudolf Dreikurs
* David Elkind
* Jo Frost
* Haim Ginott
* Thomas Gordon
* Alan E. Kazdin
* Truby King
* Annette Lareau
* Penelope Leach
* Matthew Sanders
* William Sears
* B. F. Skinner
* Benjamin Spock

Organizations|

* Families Need Fathers
* Mothers' Union
* National Childbirth Trust
* National Fatherhood Initiative
* National Parents Organization
* Parent–teacher association
* Parents Against Child Exploitation

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