The Friends of Distinction

American rhythm and blues group

The Friends of Distinction

The Friends of Distinction in 1973.
Floyd Butler, Dani McCormick, Harry Elston, Dianne Jackson

Background information
Origin| Los Angeles, California, United States
Genres|

* R&B
* pop
* soul
* sunshine pop
* psychedelic soul

Years active| 1968–1975
Labels| RCA Records
Past members| Floyd Butler
Dani McCormick
Harry Elston
Dianne Jackson
Charlene Gibson
Jessica Cleaves
Barbara Jean Love

The Friends of Distinction were an American vocal group founded by Harry Elston and Floyd Butler, best known for their 1969 RIAA-certified Gold hits "Grazing in the Grass" and "Going in Circles" and the 1970 hit "Love or Let Me Be Lonely", with all three reaching the Hot 100's top 15.

## Career

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The Friends of Distinction formed in 1968 in Los Angeles with original members Floyd Butler (June 5, 1937 – April 29, 1990), Harry Elston (November 4, 1938 – March 4, 2025), Jessica Cleaves (December 10, 1948 – May 2, 2014), and Barbara Jean Love (born July 24, 1941).[1] Butler and Elston had worked together in The Hi-Fi's in the mid 1960s, often opening for Ray Charles.[1] Other members of the Hi-Fi's were Marilyn McCoo and Lamont McLemore, who would later co-found The Fifth Dimension.

The Friends of Distinction were discovered by American football player Jim Brown, who also discovered Earth, Wind & Fire,[2] and were signed to RCA Records.

The Friends' first major hit, "Grazing in the Grass", was an Elston-sung vocal cover version of an instrumental hit by Hugh Masekela, with lyrics written by Elston.[1] Released in March 1969, this gold record went Top 5 on both the pop and soul charts in the U.S., peaking at No. 3 on the Billboard Hot 100 in June.[3] The follow-up ballad "Going in Circles" also charted highly, hitting No. 15 in November.[3]

When Love took time off during her pregnancy, Charlene Gibson replaced her, singing lead on the Friends' third hit, "Love or Let Me Be Lonely", which peaked at No. 6 on the Billboard Hot 100 on 2-9 May 1970. The Friends were prolific between 1969 and 1973, releasing six albums, with a seventh in 1976. They also released numerous singles, including "Check It Out" and a cover of Neil Sedaka's "Time Waits for No One". They also released a cover of Bread's "It Don't Matter To Me" shortly after the original's release in 1970.

The group quit touring in 1976, and broke up soon afterward. Cleaves sang with Earth, Wind & Fire for a number of years.

"Going in Circles" has been covered by Isaac Hayes, The Gap Band and Luther Vandross, and "Love or Let Me Be Lonely" by Paul Davis.

In 1990, Elston and Butler planned to revive the Friends of Distinction, but Butler suffered a heart attack and died at the age of 52 on April 29 of that year. He had already written songs for the group and one composition he co-wrote, "Check It Out", was a hit for the group Tavares. Elston formed a new quartet, also called The Friends of Distinction, and the group continues to give live performances.

Jessica Cleaves died on May 2, 2014, from a stroke at the age of 65.[4]

Harry Elston died on March 4, 2025, at the age of 86.[5]

## Discography

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### Studio albums

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Year  | Title  | Peak chart positions  | Record label

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|
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US Pop
[6] | US
R&B
[7] | CAN
[8]
1969  | Grazin' | 35  | 10  | 17  | RCA
Highly Distinct | 173  | 14  | —
1970  | Real Friends | 68  | 9  | 49
Whatever | 179  | 42  | —
1971  | Friends & People | 166  | —  | —
1973  | Love Can Make It Easier | —  | —  | —
1975  | Reviviscence – Live to Light Again | —  | —  | —
"—" denotes a recording that did not chart or was not released in that territory.

### Compilation albums

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* Greatest Hits (1973, RCA Victor)
* Golden Classics (1989, Collectables)
* Best of the Friends of Distinction (1996, RCA)
* Going in Circles (2005, RCA/Sony BMG)

### Singles

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Year  | Title  | Peak chart positions  | Certifications | Album

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|
|
|

US Pop
[9] | US
R&B
[10] | US
A/C
[11] | AUS
[12] | CAN
[8]
1969  | "Grazing in the Grass"  | 3  | 5  | —  | 98  | 5  |

* RIAA: Gold[13]

| Grazin'
"Going in Circles" (A-side) | 15  | 3  | —  | —  | 24  |

* RIAA: Gold[13]

"Let Yourself Go" (B-side) | 63  | —  | —  | —  | 34  |  | Highly Distinct
1970  | "Love or Let Me Be Lonely"  | 6  | 13  | 9  | 55  | 2  |  | Real Friends
"Time Waits for No One"  | 60  | 37  | —  | —  | 37  |  | Whatever
1971  | "I Need You"  | 79  | 28  | —  | —  | —  |  | Friends & People
"Down I Go"  | —  | —  | —  | —  | —  |
"Let Me Be"  | —  | —  | —  | —  | —  |
1972  | "Love Is the Way of Life (The Humble Stranger)"  | —  | —  | —  | —  | —  |  | non-album track
"Thumb Tripping (I'll Be Movin' On)"  | —  | —  | —  | —  | —  |  | Love Can Make It Easier
1973  | "Easy Evil"  | —  | —  | —  | —  | —  |
"Love Can Make It Easier"  | —  | —  | —  | —  | —  |
1975  | "Honey Baby Theme"  | —  | —  | —  | —  | —  |  | Honey Baby, Honey Baby
"Love Shack (Opened Up a Shop) Pt. 1"  | —  | —  | —  | —  | —  |  | Reviviscence – Live to Light Again
"—" denotes a recording that did not chart or was not released in that territory.

## References

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1. ^ a b c Colin Larkin, ed. (1992). The Guinness Encyclopedia of Popular Music (First ed.). Guinness Publishing. p. 921\. ISBN 0-85112-939-0.
2. ^ Danois, Ericka Blount (January 22, 2021). "Cosmic Heights: Earth, Wind & Fire". Wax Poetics. Retrieved March 10, 2025.
3. ^ a b Murrells, Joseph (1978). The Book of Golden Discs (2nd ed.). London: Barrie and Jenkins Ltd. p. 259. ISBN 0-214-20512-6.
4. ^ "Former Earth Wind & Fire and Friends of Distinction singer Jessica Cleaves dies at age 65". Soultracks.com. May 2, 2014. Retrieved May 3, 2014.
5. ^ "Friends of Distinction founder, "Grazing In The Grass" singer Harry Elston dies at 86". Soul Tracks. May 4, 2025. Retrieved March 9, 2025.
6. ^ "The Friends of Distinction: Billboard 200". Billboard.com. January 22, 2015. Archived from the original on July 14, 2019.
7. ^ "The Friends of Distinction: Top R&B Albums". Billboard.com. Archived from the original on July 14, 2019.
8. ^ a b "The Friends of Distinction". Bac-lac.gc.ca. RPM. July 17, 2013.
9. ^ "The Friends of Distinction: Hot 100". Billboard.com. September 12, 2008. Archived from the original on July 14, 2019.
10. ^ "The Friends of Distinction: Hot R&B Songs". Billboard.com. Archived from the original on July 14, 2019.
11. ^ "The Friends of Distinction: Adult Contemporary Songs". Billboard.com. Archived from the original on July 14, 2019.
12. ^ David Kent (1993). Australian Charts Book 1970—1992. Australian Chart Book Pty Ltd, Turramurra, N.S.W. ISBN 0-646-11917-6.
13. ^ a b "American certifications – Friends of Distinction". Recording Industry Association of America. Retrieved September 23, 2024.

## External links

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* The Friends of Distinction at AllMusic
* The Friends of Distinction at Soul Tracks
* The Friends of Distinction discography at Discogs
* The Friends of Distinction at IMDb

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The Friends of Distinction

* Harry Elston
* Floyd Butler
* Jessica Cleaves
* Barbara Jean Love
* Charlene Gibson

Studio albums|

* Grazin' (1969)
* Highly Distinct (1969)
* Real Friends (1970)
* Whatever (1970)
* Friends & People (1971)
* Love Can Make It Easier (1973)

Singles|

* "Grazing in the Grass"
* "Going in Circles"
* "Love or Let Me Be Lonely"
* "Time Waits for No One"

Authority control databases

International|

* ISNI
* VIAF

National|

* Germany
* United States
* France
* BnF data

Artists|

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