The Jonah complex is the: fear of success; fear of change; fear of personal growth, fear of reaching one's potential; fear of achieving one's aspirations and dreams; and fear of meeting one's social and God-given responsibilities (golden rule, etc.).[1][2][3]
The Jonah complex may interfere with an individual's achievement orientation and hinder a person's ability to achieve organizational/societal aims and goals.[4]
The Jonah complex is more evident in neurotic people.[5][6]
Abraham Maslow, who is credited with originating the concept of the Jonah Complex, stated: "So often we run away from the responsibilities dictated (or rather suggested) by nature, by fate, even sometimes by accident, just as Jonah tried—in vain—to run away from his fate".[7]
Symptoms of the Jonah complex include:[9]
- Low goals. See: Goal setting
- Missing of opportunities
- Quitting (Just when an individual is on the verge of success, he may quit)
- Self-destructiveness
- Self-sabotage
Causes of the Jonah complex include:[10][11][12]
- Unsure of one's abilities. See: Self-efficacy
- Low self-esteem and feelings of unworthiness. Imposter syndrome. Inability/difficulty seeing oneself in a position of authority/prominence.[13]
- Fear of the spotlight due to shyness or introversion. Desire not to be the center of attention. Fear that others will be envious. See: Interpersonal skills
- Avoidance of the increased responsibilities, work and stress. See: Mental toughness and Psychological resilience
- Fear that if one achieves a goal, one may still feel unfilled/unhappy
- A narrow, limiting and fixed view of success. See: Growth mindset and Change management
- Fear that success may change you, but in a negative way. See: Change management
- Fear of seeming to be self-centered or arrogant[14]
- Childhood trauma. Lack of parental support.
Ways of overcoming the Jonah complex include:[15][16][17]
- Adopting a growth mindset. Realizing that accomplishing goals is a matter of progress and not perfection.
- Have a positive attitude. Identify and challenge false, negative, unrealistic and limiting beliefs.
- Note how the Jonah complex manifests. Engage in goal setting. Avoid procrastination, missing opportunities, perfectionism, bad attitudes, limiting/false beliefs, quitting, self-destructive/self-handicapping behaviors.
- Stepping out of one's comfort zone and adopting an achievement orientation. Practice experiencing discomfort and build a tolerance to it.
- Developing grit, mental toughness and psychological resilience. Persistence is often necessary for achievement.
- Increasing one's abilities. See: Self-efficacy
- Learn stress management strategies/techniques
- Improving one's interpersonal skills
- Track success via goal setting/tracking, journaling, etc.
- Visualizing success and see all the likely/possible benefits
- Greater willingness to take reasonable/calculated risks. Having a sense of adventure. See: Risk and Risk management
- Accepting one's social/God-given responsibilities. Engaging in continual spiritual growth.
- Explore the origins of one's Jonah complex in terms of one's childhood, later experiences, attitudes, beliefs and actions.
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